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Post by mitchmate on Mar 7, 2017 20:13:57 GMT -6
So I have identified as Agender for quite a while now, but I'm not sure if that what I am. I was born a girl, and hate being referred to as one. But as a guy I'm not sure, I want to appear as one, like if someone was to assume my gender they would guess a guy. But I wouldn't want to phisically be one, or mentally. Only look like one if that makes sense? But at the same time I don't feel as any gender what do ever. I prefer they/them pronounes, but I am would feel comfortable with he him too. Can someone help me?
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Post by carrie on Mar 28, 2017 14:52:40 GMT -6
So I will try not to sound like a sappy PSA. You are you. You are a PERSON who enjoys and feels right looking like and dressing in ways that we stereotype to be male, but are perfectly happy with the female anatomy that you have. Do you need a label for who you are? Lots of people find comfort in labels, but there are not enough labels to fit every single person. Maybe gender-fluid (someone who does not feel they have a fixed gender) fits better for you? Gender fluid, at least how I understand it, means that in some ways you are male, some ways female, and some ways neither. While agender means more that you don't have a particular gender at all. Is that helpful?
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