Post by zxcraft117 on Mar 12, 2016 16:04:49 GMT -6
(This is sort of long so i apologize.) Like it says in the title, i am really scared to go out and meet other gay people, I am 19, female, and a lesbian, I just came out of a very unhealthy and destructive relationship about two months ago, and its left a very bad after-affect on me, and i havent felt like i could trust anyone and that i didnt want to socialise with anyone after that happened.
I Have been struggling with anxiety and loneliness most of my life, but feel like its gotten worse after my breakup, but i really want to go out and meet other gay people (preferably girls) but my self esteem is very bad atm, and my hope for finding friends or a relationship is low.
I think that i'm an attractive enough person, i have nice physical features and am quite brainy, and i can be very kind and understanding, but i feel that people (especially other gay teenagers) do not like me, due to the fact that i'm quite different, in the way that i look/dress and my manner, and i have gotten mostly bad social experiences and reactions from people.
I guess i just want some advice on where to go from here, I don't have any friends to go places with (especially gay bars/avents/groups) so im just all on my own with this, and need advice on what steps i can make, like what kind of places i could go and socialise, and strategies on how to deal with socially uncomfortable situations.
I would be very appreciative of any feedback on this
I Have been struggling with anxiety and loneliness most of my life, but feel like its gotten worse after my breakup, but i really want to go out and meet other gay people (preferably girls) but my self esteem is very bad atm, and my hope for finding friends or a relationship is low.
I think that i'm an attractive enough person, i have nice physical features and am quite brainy, and i can be very kind and understanding, but i feel that people (especially other gay teenagers) do not like me, due to the fact that i'm quite different, in the way that i look/dress and my manner, and i have gotten mostly bad social experiences and reactions from people.
I guess i just want some advice on where to go from here, I don't have any friends to go places with (especially gay bars/avents/groups) so im just all on my own with this, and need advice on what steps i can make, like what kind of places i could go and socialise, and strategies on how to deal with socially uncomfortable situations.
I would be very appreciative of any feedback on this
