transgender/androgynous

Gender itself is a fluid thing, sometimes people feel more or less masculine or feminine at certain times. But sometimes it can be a bit more of a rollercoaster than just drifting up and down. I identify as genderfluid, and I personally do it because I feel like I jump around a bit more than the normal up and down. Some days I want to be percieved as male, others I want to be percieved as female and others I want to be percieved as something in between. This is my experience, however. Different people experience gender differently and still identify with being genderfluid. Its all about what you feel is the right word for you

Also, naming your identity is not as important as making yourself comfortable with how you are experiencing life. Labels can be helpful, but more importantly are you happy with the pronouns (he/she/they/etc) that people use for you? Are you comfortable with being referred to as a girl/woman by others? If not, these are things you could ask people to change regardless of whatever word you want to use to describe your gender. Gender fluid is one of them, but there are many others that might fit. Here is a list of some of them to check out: genderqueerid.com/gq-terms. Another thing to remember is that genitalia has no impact on gender. Even if you eventually figure out you're not a girl, genitalia changed aren't compulsory to identify as something else. Transitions are to help people feel more at home in their bodies and if you want to identify as not cisgendered without changing your body at all, thats totally cool.

Hopefully thats helpful for you

I flow back and forth between how I choose to dress, present and act from day to day. Some days I'm fluffy, flowing, and sparkly. Other days, I'm squared off, quite traditional, and very much not into the accoutrements of women. Somedays, I'm in between. I rather like flowing through life and not identifying as any one gender at any give time. I'm always a woman, and happy to be, thanks. But I don't and will not always present in a socially driven female construct.