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Post by issasera on Oct 13, 2014 21:43:04 GMT -6
Is being gay or lesb not a choice?
Is there any chance for us to be a straight
I feel i v been a lesbian for the rest of my life.
I have a desire to be normal.
Do i have chance?
Dont judge me.. Why i wanna be normal..
I live in a religious country..i know abt my religious rule.. It make me.confuse.. Also depressed sometimes..
Thx u.
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Regitze
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Post by Regitze on Oct 14, 2014 3:51:24 GMT -6
You can't change who you are and your sexuality is a part of that.
So no being lesbian, bisexual, straight or any other sexuality is not a choice.
For example, You can't change your eye color, you can wear contacts that makes it look like you have blue eyes instead of brown but you'll always have brown eyes. Your sexuality is no different, it's just a bit more difficult to find out your sexuality than your eye color.
Being a lesbian has nothing to do with being normal or not, like having green eyes doesn't mean you are a weirdo it just means that you have green eyes.
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Post by Matt Stout on Oct 14, 2014 21:35:12 GMT -6
Is being gay or lesb not a choice? Is there any chance for us to be a straight I feel i v been a lesbian for the rest of my life. I have a desire to be normal. Do i have chance? Dont judge me.. Why i wanna be normal.. I live in a religious country..i know abt my religious rule.. It make me.confuse.. Also depressed sometimes.. Thx u. I think it all comes down to personal belief, but here is what I believe. 1.) No, I do not believe that being LGBT is a choice. I do not know many people who would knowingly chose a life so challenging. I do not ever in my life remember waking up one day and being like "You know what... I think I am going to be gay now." It was something I have known ever since I was about 5 years old. At that age you are not "Making a choice" You are living your life the way you feel you are suppose to. Not a way you choose to live. 2.) I would not say "There is a chance for us to be straight" Mainly because even if we try to be straight, we can not deny what we really feel. We can not deny who we really are. 3.) There is nothing wrong with you feeling like you are going to be a lesbian for the rest of your life. You are who you are. Don't try to change it. 4.) You have a desire to be normal? Who says you are not normal? 5.) Do you have a chance? I think you have an amazing chance to live the life that you are intended to live! You are normal. You just need to ensure you do not let others make their idea of normal seem like you are doing something wrong. Make your "Normal" what you want it to be, not what someone else want's it to be. I understand mixing the LGBT lifestyle with religion becomes a very stressful situation. You just have to know what you believe, and stand true to your heart! ~Matt |
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