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Post by kuroshiroi on Oct 26, 2014 10:20:38 GMT -6
I'm in my early teens so I feel that figuring out my sexuality is going to take some time, but it's driving me crazy! I came out as bi a year ago. I was positive that I was attracted to both males and females, but now I'm not so sure. I'll start from the beginning. I used to think that being attracted to the same sex was weird, gross even. I later found that I was beginning to like the idea of dating a girl and almost wanted to be bi or a lesbian. I figured that I was more into 'boy stuff' like video games and liked hanging out with boys more than I did girls, so I thought that I must be gay. I've dated a boy, but there was nothing there and I've never had a crush on a boy. It's probably because I'm so young. I was starting to think that maybe I was actually straight. Right now I have a crush on a girl. I don't know if it's a deep admiration or that I'd like to be like her. We've never really talked. Yeah, we talk to each other during lessons at school but never at breaks or outside of school. I've also been going through a phase of 'men are gross and I never want to date one,' and now I've found myself being attracted to them as well as women. I'm just really confused about my sexuality and need some advice. Sorry for the long post and thanks for reading.
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Post by Racheal Acuff on Oct 29, 2014 11:24:44 GMT -6
Hello!
First off welcome to the forums! We are really glad you are here! Secondly, being that you are so young, right now take the time to enjoy yourself, you have all the time in the world to find out what makes you truly happy. One day your heart will tell you who you are supposed to love and when that day comes you will know. It will hit you like a ton of bricks. Right now the best advice I can give you is to be yourself, be friends with who you want to be friends with and date who you want to date, if it is a boy great, a girl great. Do what feels good and makes you happy! We are always here for you and don't be afraid to continue to reach out to us! Matt and I are also available by phone 24/7 and email to help you in any way we can!
Much Love, Rae**
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Post by rainbowlove on Nov 2, 2014 14:33:52 GMT -6
I totally agree with Rachael! Its your time to just live, you don't have to put your self in a box now or later. I know exactly how you feel and I promise you life will show you the truth in the end =, just don't rush it! If you rush you may make decision you regret later on. However all mistakes are lessons we need to learn, they may hurt but in the end it makes us stronger! Remember its ok not to know all the answers. Good Luck!
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