Post by Regitze on Dec 9, 2014 14:36:22 GMT -6
Hi,
I was hoping that somebody could help me figure out what to do, before I do something unbelievable stupid.
2 weeks ago I was at my best friend's birthday party nothing big just ten of her closest friends (this also happened to be the first party where everybody knew I was bi). I had met a few of them before but the only one I had really talked with before was Em, I had recently found out that Em too was bi, which I found really exiting and a bid surprising. But anyway me and Em talked most of the night and flirted quite a bid too (which was also really exiting cause I had never really flirted with anyone before, let alone a girl). Nothing else happened and In a drunken conversation with my best friend after Em left I think I asked if she was alright with it and I think she answered that she was okay with us flirting that night but she didn't think I should pursue it because we are bound to see each other again which is would be extremely awkward if it didn't work out.
As clever as I am on the back to my boarding school/college the day after a texted her and we haven't really stopped since, mind me it has been innocent and mainly just joking around and stuff, but we are sort of going on a date the Thursday after next.
My problem is that I really like Em, she is so funny and beautiful, but also don't wanna screw up my relationship with my best friend. I think me and Em could become something lasting but it might also just have been the booze. I don't know...
Also I haven't talked to my best friend about this and it's killing me cause she is normally the one I go to.
-Regitze
I was hoping that somebody could help me figure out what to do, before I do something unbelievable stupid.
2 weeks ago I was at my best friend's birthday party nothing big just ten of her closest friends (this also happened to be the first party where everybody knew I was bi). I had met a few of them before but the only one I had really talked with before was Em, I had recently found out that Em too was bi, which I found really exiting and a bid surprising. But anyway me and Em talked most of the night and flirted quite a bid too (which was also really exiting cause I had never really flirted with anyone before, let alone a girl). Nothing else happened and In a drunken conversation with my best friend after Em left I think I asked if she was alright with it and I think she answered that she was okay with us flirting that night but she didn't think I should pursue it because we are bound to see each other again which is would be extremely awkward if it didn't work out.
As clever as I am on the back to my boarding school/college the day after a texted her and we haven't really stopped since, mind me it has been innocent and mainly just joking around and stuff, but we are sort of going on a date the Thursday after next.
My problem is that I really like Em, she is so funny and beautiful, but also don't wanna screw up my relationship with my best friend. I think me and Em could become something lasting but it might also just have been the booze. I don't know...
Also I haven't talked to my best friend about this and it's killing me cause she is normally the one I go to.
-Regitze
I followed my heart and it has been truly amazing. So much has happened since Christmas, I don't even know where to start. 