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Post by caitylynn07 on Dec 16, 2014 18:09:42 GMT -6
I've come here seeking advice. My niece is 5, and she is sweet as can be. She is very attached to me and my wife. My nieces father came to me and told me that my niece told him that she didn't feel normal, that she felt like she was a boy and that she liked girls, and has asked me to talk to her about everything because of who I am in her life (mind you we are all very supportive of whatever she is because we always knew she was different) What I am torn with is how I should explain this lifestyle to my niece and make her feel comfortable in her skin. I am a femme, my wife is a dyke but doesn't really "identify" and I think she relates to my wife more, I've never done this before, so any advice on how I could explain gender identity to my niece is greatly appreciated
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Post by harupoppo on Jan 10, 2015 21:01:59 GMT -6
I don't have any kids but I can tell you how my mom handled talks about delicate matters with me as a kid. Just be straight forward. Not graphic or anything but scientific. Like explaining to her why the sky is blue. The most important part is that she understands that she is loved and accepted no matter what.
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Post by Matt Stout on Jan 12, 2015 20:48:44 GMT -6
I am sorry for the late reply. The holidays have had me overwhelmingly busy. However, my advice for you would be to do a bit of research on the topic, and make sure you are approaching it from a "We support you, and just want you happy" stand point. Make sure you reassure her that it is okay for her to be who she wants to be. Make sure to reinforce that there is nothing "wrong" with her, and that she is not doing anything "wrong." Just be there for her, be supportive of her (as I am sure you already are) and make sure to let her know that she can always come to you, and that you will be there with her through every step of the way! Hope this helps a little! Let me know if there is ever anything we can do to help! ~Matt
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