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Jan 12, 2015 13:40:56 GMT -6
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Post by chronos on Jan 12, 2015 13:40:56 GMT -6
Hello everyone, my name is Zack. I'm not really sure how to introduce myself, but I'll start by saying I'm a male in my mid twenties. I know categorization is a slippery slope, and I'm not exactly sure where I fit in. I would describe my sexuality as bisexual, with a preference for females and a complete lack of romantic attraction for men, (strictly sexual) and some confusing gender identity issues.
Therein lies my confusion. I'm not sure how to identify. I'm definitely closeted, except to my girlfriend. I appreciate your feedback. Peace.
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Post by Racheal Acuff on Jan 12, 2015 22:56:51 GMT -6
Zack,
First off, welcome to the forums we are glad you are here! Confusion is one of the nasty little parasites that likes to invade your mind and live there until you rudely make it leave, I have been there, I think everyone has at one point or another. I can't tell you where you fall and it isn't my place to, all I can do is provide you with the best advice I can, and personally I don't really see the need for you to place yourself in a "catagory" or "box" I think the best thing you can do is be Zack. If you are happy with your relationship embrace it, and make it the best thing you can have in your life, always live for yourself first and the ones that are the closest to you next. Pushing yourself into fitting into a box that you don't belong in is only going to make you resent yourself and make others resent you in the process. I hope this helps a little and if you need anything, please don't hesitate to reach out to us. Matt and I are always here 24/7 and can also be reached by email and text!
Much love,
Rae**
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Post by chronos on Jan 13, 2015 9:28:23 GMT -6
I appreciate the support. I suppose I'm here for community and to grow as a person in this avenue I've yet to delve into. For many years i was in denial, now I'm learning to love myself for who I am. Thanks again.  |
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Post by Matt Stout on Jan 13, 2015 20:46:58 GMT -6
For many years i was in denial, now I'm learning to love myself for who I am. Denial is something so many people go through for years at a time! I am so glad you are learning to love yourself for who you are! That is the best thing for you! Don't ever let anyone break you of that! ~Matt |
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