Post by alex12dk on Jan 20, 2015 18:53:47 GMT -6
So yeah...
One of my best friends confessed that she loves me, in a pretty drunk drunk drunk message two weeks ago...
It all started in this school year. And she was one of them that I really clicked with, you know? And now, 4 months later, it's about to be over, which I really don't want because she is the one person that gets me. Back in October I told her that I was homosexual, and she was the first person to know, and she told me that she was bi, and after that we got close. And two weeks ago we were at this big party, and we were both pretty wasted, and then we started to talk about crushes, and she told me that she had a crush on a girl on our school. And I tried to get it out of her who it was, but she didn't tell me... And in the evening there was a lot of drama with me and my other best friend, but it's not relevant.. But then the party ended, and I got home, I saw I had a message from her(the girl in love), but I wasn't sure what said, one: because I was wasted, two: there was lots of spelling mistakes. But in the morning I got a new message where she wrote what the last message was about, and she felt that the bomb was planted, and she could just be honest about she feel about me.
And after I read that text, I haven't talked to her, write back and I have ignored her at school, and I know it's wrong, but I panicked, and didn't know what to do. And I don't feel the same way about her. Not at all. But I can't just be friends and pretend it didn't happen.
But I'm also a bit pissed, because on her Twitter, she writes all kinds of stuff, fx"great.. Drunk texting, Can make you loose your friend." And so on.. And I know it's fair since I didn't answer her, but still. Putting this on a social media...
And at the party she almost told my best friend(the one with the drama), that I was gay. And again, it piss me a bit of. Because I want to tell her it myself.
But I'm looking for an answer to what I'm supposed to say to her. Please help.
- Chris 16, DK
One of my best friends confessed that she loves me, in a pretty drunk drunk drunk message two weeks ago...
It all started in this school year. And she was one of them that I really clicked with, you know? And now, 4 months later, it's about to be over, which I really don't want because she is the one person that gets me. Back in October I told her that I was homosexual, and she was the first person to know, and she told me that she was bi, and after that we got close. And two weeks ago we were at this big party, and we were both pretty wasted, and then we started to talk about crushes, and she told me that she had a crush on a girl on our school. And I tried to get it out of her who it was, but she didn't tell me... And in the evening there was a lot of drama with me and my other best friend, but it's not relevant.. But then the party ended, and I got home, I saw I had a message from her(the girl in love), but I wasn't sure what said, one: because I was wasted, two: there was lots of spelling mistakes. But in the morning I got a new message where she wrote what the last message was about, and she felt that the bomb was planted, and she could just be honest about she feel about me.
And after I read that text, I haven't talked to her, write back and I have ignored her at school, and I know it's wrong, but I panicked, and didn't know what to do. And I don't feel the same way about her. Not at all. But I can't just be friends and pretend it didn't happen.
But I'm also a bit pissed, because on her Twitter, she writes all kinds of stuff, fx"great.. Drunk texting, Can make you loose your friend." And so on.. And I know it's fair since I didn't answer her, but still. Putting this on a social media...
And at the party she almost told my best friend(the one with the drama), that I was gay. And again, it piss me a bit of. Because I want to tell her it myself.
But I'm looking for an answer to what I'm supposed to say to her. Please help.
- Chris 16, DK