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Post by katesdaughter on Aug 8, 2014 17:57:45 GMT -6
I need some advice. Not long ago, I thought I was bisexual. I had this "crush" on my friend's friend. He was flirting with me on facebook, so I gave him my number. We talked all day and made jokes about running of to Europe together. I thought I really liked him and he said he really liked me. The more I thought about liking him, the less I liked him and also the less I liked guys. I knew, as of the couple of days after that, that I was lesbian. I don't know how to tell him. He really likes me and I feel really bad about leading him on like that. I don't want him to be mad at me. What should I do? Hello. You didn't lead him on, you truly were interested in him, and through him you have learned that you are not the sort to like any man in the manner he expects. You'll find a dressier way to say that, if you haven't already, but ultimately he helped you resolve the question within yourself. Take care now! |
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Aug 24, 2014 2:08:19 GMT -6
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Post by Emmadiangelo on Aug 24, 2014 2:08:19 GMT -6
I'm bisexual, and so is my friend. Just a few hours ago, she told me that she wanted to go out with me. I (also a girl) love her more than words can describe, but I don't like her in that way. I'm scared to tell her because I fear of what will happen with our friendship, and to her. She's very depressed and emotional, and always takes things so hard.
She's dealt with so much pain in the past and I don't want her to feel anymore.
Please, someone answer fast. I need an answer immediately.
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Post by katesdaughter on Aug 24, 2014 19:55:37 GMT -6
Just seeing this. Hopefully, you stayed honest. Love doesn't have to equate with sex. You can love someone with all your heart, and not want to share your body with that person. Never compromise on something like that. Imagine how much more hurt your friend would be if you did have a sexual encounter only to go on to learn that you weren't really interested.
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Aug 27, 2014 18:47:32 GMT -6
Post by Racheal Acuff on Aug 27, 2014 18:47:32 GMT -6
Just seeing this. Hopefully, you stayed honest. Love doesn't have to equate with sex. You can love someone with all your heart, and not want to share your body with that person. Never compromise on something like that. Imagine how much more hurt your friend would be if you did have a sexual encounter only to go on to learn that you weren't really interested. I agree with this statement all the way around. Love isn't about the physical side of things, it is about being honest and true and always there for the ones you love no matter what. Physical love such as sex should be saved for the person have those feelings for and only when you have had those feelings for a long amount of time, not something that happens on the fly. Much Love, Rae** |
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Sept 7, 2014 12:48:58 GMT -6
Post by Matt Stout on Sept 7, 2014 12:48:58 GMT -6
I'm bisexual, and so is my friend. Just a few hours ago, she told me that she wanted to go out with me. I (also a girl) love her more than words can describe, but I don't like her in that way. I'm scared to tell her because I fear of what will happen with our friendship, and to her. She's very depressed and emotional, and always takes things so hard. She's dealt with so much pain in the past and I don't want her to feel anymore. Please, someone answer fast. I need an answer immediately. I apologize for the late response, but I know you can probably still use the advice. I know what it is like to love someone but not in the same way they love you. It is very challenging, but in the end you have to go with your heart. You do not ever want to get sexually involved with someone because they have a lot of pain going on in their life. (If you haven't done so already) Explain to her how you feel. Explain to her that you love her more than anything, but you are not IN love with her. Explain to her that you will always be there for her, and that you will do anything to make her happy. Also express to her how you do not want to get sexually involved because you are afraid it will ruin the amazing friendship you already have. I have had to do this several times, and it always ends well for me! Let us know how it goes, or how it has gone! ~Matt |
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Sept 18, 2014 16:43:52 GMT -6
Post by katesdaughter on Sept 18, 2014 16:43:52 GMT -6
If you are comfortable doing so, Emmadiangelo would you let us know how you are doing?
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Dec 8, 2014 14:40:09 GMT -6
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Post by KatieDilyn on Dec 8, 2014 14:40:09 GMT -6
Hi, I am a 14 year old girl who is really wondering what and who I am. I think I might be a lesbian but i honestly font know. When I was little, i would think,"Oh! He's cute!" But now its like,"Oh! She's sooooooooo cute!!!! Ah!!!" I am starting to realize that I am attravted to females more so than males but I am still attracted to a few guys. This is actually turning my life upside down because I am so confused by this all. If you could help or give me some advice, that would be amazing.
~Katie (the whole Dilyn thing in my guest name is because I want to be called that but my friends thinks its a bad idea.)
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Dec 14, 2014 21:35:09 GMT -6
Post by Matt Stout on Dec 14, 2014 21:35:09 GMT -6
Hi, I am a 14 year old girl who is really wondering what and who I am. I think I might be a lesbian but i honestly font know. When I was little, i would think,"Oh! He's cute!" But now its like,"Oh! She's sooooooooo cute!!!! Ah!!!" I am starting to realize that I am attravted to females more so than males but I am still attracted to a few guys. This is actually turning my life upside down because I am so confused by this all. If you could help or give me some advice, that would be amazing. ~Katie (the whole Dilyn thing in my guest name is because I want to be called that but my friends thinks its a bad idea.) Dilyn(Katie), I am going to give you the same advice I give to everyone who mentions this to me, because the advice is so true. Do NOT find yourself trying to fit into a label. Do not worry about if you are "bi" or "Straight" just do what makes you happy. Do not worry about the labels or what people think of you. Just make sure you are happy, and everything else will fall into place! Be attracted to who ever your body, and mind is attracted to! Hope this helps a little! ~Matt |
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Feb 5, 2015 14:11:06 GMT -6
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Post by jakea29 on Feb 5, 2015 14:11:06 GMT -6
hi. i have recently come out of the closet. i am 13 years old. i am having some need in advise.. well i have a friend who is straight and he knows im gay i have a very emotional fellings for him and he knows i have these feelings and recently he said he was also gay.. then he said a couple days after that he wasnt personlayy i think he is scared of coming out... so.. what should i do? cause i realy realy like him and i think he might have some feelings too. so if u can please help me with some advise
thank you.. Jake
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Feb 8, 2015 19:56:51 GMT -6
Post by Matt Stout on Feb 8, 2015 19:56:51 GMT -6
hi. i have recently come out of the closet. i am 13 years old. i am having some need in advise.. well i have a friend who is straight and he knows im gay i have a very emotional fellings for him and he knows i have these feelings and recently he said he was also gay.. then he said a couple days after that he wasnt personlayy i think he is scared of coming out... so.. what should i do? cause i realy realy like him and i think he might have some feelings too. so if u can please help me with some advise thank you.. Jake The only thing you can do is sit down and talk to him about it. Find out if he is really just scared of coming out, or if there is something else bothering him. The only thing you can do in this situation is talk to him. Communication makes everything better! ~Matt |
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