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Post by Rose on Jul 13, 2015 7:47:20 GMT -6
Hi everyone. I am confused about some things and I was wondering if someone might be able to give me advice. Okay, so the past few days I've been questioning my gender identity. I am female and enjoy it immensely. I love girly clothes and wouldn't give it up for anything. But there are days where i feel like dressing in more neutral/masculine clothing. I don't wish to look completely like a guy, but sometimes I just want to wear jeans and a guys hoodie instead of a skirt and blouse. On these days I want to have short hair, but not a masculine haircut, just more neutral, and I feel more masculine and interested in masculine things. I do identify as female and use female pronouns, but sometimes I just feel like and want to dress more like a guy. My question is, am I female and just like dressing in mens clothes sometimes or am I genderfluid? I have no problem being a girl, its just sometimes I feel more masculine than others. Its not a case of some days I feel like a girl and others I feel like a guy, its more just how I feel and my personality/mood on that day, though I always identify as a girl. I wouldn't mind if people referred to me as a guy, but if they ask I will say I'm a girl. I'm kind of confused so some help would be great. Thanks!
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Post by courtneysvoice on Aug 12, 2015 12:56:49 GMT -6
You could just be a gender bender, someone who doesn't conform to gender roles, therefore sometimes dresses more like the opposite sex.
I don't know a single girl who doesn't sometimes just want to wear jeans and a hoodie that is a little big.
But I am not saying that you aren't genderfluid. I personally am genderfluid and what helped me figure out my identity was the fact that I didn't want to be a girl on some days. Like I despised feeling like a girl, dressing like a girl, and even having girl parts. Most of the time I am neutral. i don't want to be a girl or a guy. But there are days where I feel just a bit more girly.
I hope that kinda helps.
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