Post by Hannah G on Aug 9, 2015 3:04:55 GMT -6
Hi!
I sort of have no one to share with at the moment, as I don't really want to involve anyone I know IRL with this.
Basically, I identified as (a closeted) bisexual for a few years, and was comfortable under that label, until about a month ago, when I realised I was really grossed out by the concept of sex with people with penises. I reevaluated my attraction and decided I would fit more as a lesbian.
This would normally be fine, but for the past week I've basically been living with this boy I know, and over that time I realised that I liked him for many reasons - he is cute, smart, and has an amazing sense of humour. I started to picture us together in a romantic relationship, and really yearn that level of closeness with him, but when I consider anything further than kissing with him, I feel absolutely repulsed.
I'm certain that this is more than a simple crush, or just a strong friendship, but it throws me off a lot...
Right now, I feel that I fit as a biromantic homosexual. But I've seen many posts on various parts of the Internet saying that such an orientation doesn't exist, and I'm just confused. Could anyone offer me any advice?
I know a label is not the most important thing, but I sort of want to fit under something, you know?
Also, to go with this...would it be bad of me to have sex with a guy I'm romantically attracted to even if the sexual attraction is not mutual? I feel like it would be wrong to lead someone on like that, and he'd be best off with someone who can give him what he wants...what do you guys think?
Thanks so much!
I sort of have no one to share with at the moment, as I don't really want to involve anyone I know IRL with this.
Basically, I identified as (a closeted) bisexual for a few years, and was comfortable under that label, until about a month ago, when I realised I was really grossed out by the concept of sex with people with penises. I reevaluated my attraction and decided I would fit more as a lesbian.
This would normally be fine, but for the past week I've basically been living with this boy I know, and over that time I realised that I liked him for many reasons - he is cute, smart, and has an amazing sense of humour. I started to picture us together in a romantic relationship, and really yearn that level of closeness with him, but when I consider anything further than kissing with him, I feel absolutely repulsed.
I'm certain that this is more than a simple crush, or just a strong friendship, but it throws me off a lot...
Right now, I feel that I fit as a biromantic homosexual. But I've seen many posts on various parts of the Internet saying that such an orientation doesn't exist, and I'm just confused. Could anyone offer me any advice?
I know a label is not the most important thing, but I sort of want to fit under something, you know?
Also, to go with this...would it be bad of me to have sex with a guy I'm romantically attracted to even if the sexual attraction is not mutual? I feel like it would be wrong to lead someone on like that, and he'd be best off with someone who can give him what he wants...what do you guys think?
Thanks so much!
