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Post by justanother on Jun 8, 2016 16:08:18 GMT -6
I came out to my friends as bisexual. I haven't come out to my parents. I don't know if I'm scared or if I just don't want them to know. I don't know who I am and I feel like I can't accept myself. I don't know what to do, think or feel. Everything is just so confusing. Sorry  ? |
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Post by Matt Stout on Jun 12, 2016 15:59:33 GMT -6
I know what you are going through. When I first came out, I only came out to my friends. I was raised that "Being gay was a sin, and all gay people will die and go to hell." So naturally I was scared to tell my mother who I really was. Looking back on life I wish I would have told my mother a lot sooner. It would have prevented a lot of unnecessary fights, and arguments.
My advice to you is: Tell you parents who you really are. (Unless you know that it will possibly put you in danger.) If your parents are very "anti-gay" or "homophobic" I would advise you against telling them, for your safety. However, if your parents are more open minded then I would encourage you to talk to them about it. If your parents are open minded and understanding it will be able to take a lot of stress of off your shoulders.
Let me know if there is anything we can do to help.
~Matt
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Feb 27, 2017 7:27:03 GMT -6
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Post by Csaok on Feb 27, 2017 7:27:03 GMT -6
Hey!
Sexuality is so fluid, it's cliche but I wouldn't worry about what your sexuality is.
I used to class as bisexual, but because it was changing all the time I gave up with labels. You are you, sexuality won't define you. Your parents will love you no matter what, it won't change because of your sexuality.
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