Post by henry on Jan 20, 2017 20:20:36 GMT -6
Hi everyone, I posted this somewhere else and im not really getting feedback... So i want to ask you guys about it too. Im just gonna copy and paste my post.. I really need help! This situation is killing me..
"Hi Everyone, I need some advice on a subject that is just tearing me apart, and has been for a few weeks now.
I just dont understand if I feel the same way as my best friend does, or more of.. I cant understand his thinking.
Im bi, and he claims, hence the word, claims, hes straight. I guess im gonna start off with, in my opinion and those i talked to in real life, that drunk statements are sober truths.
Lets just start with the fact that, a few weeks ago my best friend got drunk and texted me for a good 2, 3 hours? Begging me to be with him, and saying all this stuff, asking me for favors, etc. Like this went on for a long time. Finally he said these words, "I just want you to love me the way i love you." So i called him immediately to get to the bottom of this. For an hour, more than an hour, he confessed his love to me. Begged me to be with him, to do sexual things with him, that he always liked me since we met, and that he loves my eyes because when he looks in them he sees "the whole world". It went on and on. So.. told him, yes. He asked, will you be my boyfriend, said yes.. And that we would discuss it the next day when i got home from work. Well we discussed it, and he said he was too drunk and he didnt remember it happening, it was weird im making it up, etc. Dont ever bring it up again. So i was like alright, a little weird but okay.. Two weeks later, he remembers the whole conversation and said it was a prank because he thought i felt that way and wanted to find out. I was devastated, but at the same time, i dont believe him. He made me bring out these feelings, and admit to it. He made me describe what kind of guy id be into if i liked guys, and i beat around the bush and described him. haha.. but then again, when i asked him the same question, he described me, PERFECTLY sober. Like me to a T. So i really dont believe that hes faking any of it, or doesn't actually feel this way. His family is super religious and against LGBT, and he thinks its wrong too because of his religion. Also, when you mention the idea of him being gay to him, he gets SO MAD. He flips out, curses at you, etc. Like gets really bent out of shape about it.
So that pretty much wraps it up for the basics. I just need opinions from you fine folks, because im going crazy. I in turn got drunk and begged him to be with me, so he knows where im at, and i told him sober that i want to be together. So.. I layed it out on the table, he just has to pick it up..."
Thanks everyone..
"Hi Everyone, I need some advice on a subject that is just tearing me apart, and has been for a few weeks now.
I just dont understand if I feel the same way as my best friend does, or more of.. I cant understand his thinking.
Im bi, and he claims, hence the word, claims, hes straight. I guess im gonna start off with, in my opinion and those i talked to in real life, that drunk statements are sober truths.
Lets just start with the fact that, a few weeks ago my best friend got drunk and texted me for a good 2, 3 hours? Begging me to be with him, and saying all this stuff, asking me for favors, etc. Like this went on for a long time. Finally he said these words, "I just want you to love me the way i love you." So i called him immediately to get to the bottom of this. For an hour, more than an hour, he confessed his love to me. Begged me to be with him, to do sexual things with him, that he always liked me since we met, and that he loves my eyes because when he looks in them he sees "the whole world". It went on and on. So.. told him, yes. He asked, will you be my boyfriend, said yes.. And that we would discuss it the next day when i got home from work. Well we discussed it, and he said he was too drunk and he didnt remember it happening, it was weird im making it up, etc. Dont ever bring it up again. So i was like alright, a little weird but okay.. Two weeks later, he remembers the whole conversation and said it was a prank because he thought i felt that way and wanted to find out. I was devastated, but at the same time, i dont believe him. He made me bring out these feelings, and admit to it. He made me describe what kind of guy id be into if i liked guys, and i beat around the bush and described him. haha.. but then again, when i asked him the same question, he described me, PERFECTLY sober. Like me to a T. So i really dont believe that hes faking any of it, or doesn't actually feel this way. His family is super religious and against LGBT, and he thinks its wrong too because of his religion. Also, when you mention the idea of him being gay to him, he gets SO MAD. He flips out, curses at you, etc. Like gets really bent out of shape about it.
So that pretty much wraps it up for the basics. I just need opinions from you fine folks, because im going crazy. I in turn got drunk and begged him to be with me, so he knows where im at, and i told him sober that i want to be together. So.. I layed it out on the table, he just has to pick it up..."
Thanks everyone..