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Post by windowsoul on May 6, 2014 16:40:33 GMT -6
Hi everyone,
I'm Kelly Elizabeth, sixteen, and female by natural design. I'm a sophmore in Chicago, IL, and my freshman year I came out a bit forcibly. I don't technically identify myself as anything, because I'm so confused as to whether I'm a bisexual or a lesbian, because very rarely I'm sexually and romantically attracted to a man, but my main focus is women. I was in denial for so long, and now I'm free. I'll admit that it hasn't been easy in the slightest sometimes. I go to a Catholic high school, and the ignorance of some students and teachers is simply appalling, and I recieved some flack after coming out. Also, I entered into my first lesbian relationship my freshman year with a gorgeous, intelligent, tragic girl who turned out to be incredibly abusive and manipulative. In the nine months we were together, she beat me down to the point where I believed I deserved to die. Finally, with help from my friends, I realized that I deserve happiness and left her. Seven months later, I'm healthier by miles and more ready to accept myself than ever. One of my goals going forward is to speak out against lesbian dating abuse and violence, and teen dating abuse. I'm proud to be who I am, and I want to help other people in need.
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Post by Matt Stout on May 6, 2014 16:51:57 GMT -6
Hi Kelly,
First off, welcome to the forums! I am personally glad you are here!
Second, WOW! I am deeply sorry for your previous relationship with the abusive individual. I know all to well that is NOT a good place to be. I however am glad you are healthier and ready to accept who you are.
I look forward to seeing you grow, and become a stronger person!
Let me know if there is ever anything you need! ~Matt
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Post by Racheal Acuff on May 6, 2014 16:59:52 GMT -6
Kelly Elizabeth,
Welcome to the Forum! I am so proud of you for getting out of an abusive relationship! It is so important to always surround yourself with loving, caring and safe relationships. My first husband was very abusive and it took me a long time to leave but once I did I was the happiest I had ever been and now my life is amazing! I think it is amazing that your goals when your older is to an advocate for dating and domestic violence! We need more voices speaking out against violence in relationships! Continue to always be who you are and as always if you need anything don't hesitate to ask!!
Much Love, Rae**
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Post by nathansimko on May 7, 2014 1:49:39 GMT -6
Hi Kelly! Welcome to the forum. I'm so sorry you had to endure so much pain and hardship in your first relationship. That couldn't have been easy. I also want to encourage you in your dream of speaking out against domestic violence in relationships. First hand experiance goes a long way in being able to help others. We are all here for you so please don't hesitate to contact any of the staff if you need help.
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Post by windowsoul on May 7, 2014 16:05:22 GMT -6
Thank you all very much for your kind words! I deeply appreciate it.
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Post by sparklepenguin on May 11, 2014 12:22:20 GMT -6
Hey Kelly! Kind of a late welcome, but um...welcome to the forums! I'm sorry you had to go through that experience of abuse, but I'm glad you're living a happier life now! This place has got some very lovely and welcoming people! You'll love it here! :3 Like everyone else, I'll be here if you need anything. Dan
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